Getting a divorce can be a messy, complicated process – and that’s even when you have a good lawyer on your side! But navigating the labyrinth of legal issues surrounding a divorce doesn’t always have to be messy, especially if you know a thing or two about the entire process.
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Here at FindLegalForms.com, we believe one of the best ways to educate yourself about the legal system is to be proactive about it and understand the legal forms that help define and shape our lives. In this article, we’ll take a look at three legal forms that definitely shape the divorce process – and what you’ll need to know about them if you want to come out clean on the other end.
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<strong>Divorce Form #1: The <a title="prenuptial agreement" href="http://www.findlegalforms.com/forms/premarital-agreements/">Prenuptial Agreement</a></strong>
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This is an agreement that often starts it all: a contract by two parties that defines what might happen to your lives and your possessions should you enter a divorce proceeding. These are usually signed before the marriage to avoid any possible legal complications, but it’s important to remember that having one in place does not necessarily grant you unlimited power in the divorce.
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The truth about prenuptial agreements is that they can vary wildly; what two people choose to put in them is essentially up to them. That’s why it’s not so important that you understand all prenuptial agreements as it is important that you understand the one <em>you’ve</em> signed.
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In many cases, a prenuptial agreement that is iron-clad and well-written really can make a divorce that much smoother. But you’d be surprised at just how many legal arrangements fail under the guise of being a prenuptial agreement when really they were simply poorly-written contracts.
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<strong>Divorce Form #2: Divorce Petitions or Complaints</strong>
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When someone says they’re “<a title="filing for a divorce" href="http://www.findlegalforms.com/forms/divorce-petitions-and-complaints/">filing for a divorce</a>,” this is often the legal form they’re talking about: a way of putting into writing their intent to separate from and dissolve the legal marriage or civil union that exists. These are typically forms that don’t vary wildly, as opposed to the prenuptial agreements, and instead focus on basic information, such as the names of the parties involved, the nature of their relationship on paper, and what is being requested and why.
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There is not much one party can do if another party is filing for divorce: as long as they have grounds for divorce, the divorce can proceed. Knowing whether or not a divorce petition has actually been filed, of course, will be integral to understand where in the process you are.
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<strong>Divorce Form #3: The <a title="Marital settlement agreement " href="http://www.findlegalforms.com/forms/marital-settlement-&amp;-separation-agreements/">Marital Settlement Agreement</a></strong>
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Once a divorce is in “full swing,” so to speak, the goal is usually to reach an amicable settlement on property and arrangements without having to go to court. A good divorce lawyer will shine at this stage in the process, able to use the force of law and legally-binding contracts to win as much as they can for your side. Even so, sometimes the smoothest divorces are the ones that have the most compromise – neither side will feel like they’ve “won.”
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To view a number of these forms, be sure to check out divorce and separation forms at FindLegalForms.com so you can begin educating yourself today.

Before you begin to prepare your actual divorce papers, you need to know exactly where you will be filing for your divorce. Three legal considerations enter into this decision. The first is residency. All states have some type of residency requirement regarding filing for divorce. You may only file for your divorce in the state in which you or your spouse reside. Residency is also referred to in some states as domicile. Both terms refer to the place where you permanently live; the place where you return to after any temporary absence. In general, you must have been a resident of the state in which you wish to file for divorce for some length of time in order for the court to hear your case.
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Each state has differing residency requirements and these are shown in the Appendices provided in the Statutes and Laws Category on this site. Some states require that you be a resident for 1 year in the state before you will be allowed to file for divorce. A few states merely require that you actually be a bona-fide resident; there is no time limit specified. In general, you will be allowed to file for divorce in the state in which you were married if you have lived there since marriage or in the state in which you currently reside if you have met the residency requirements as shown in the Appendix. It is not a good idea to move about frequently when you are contemplating divorce, as this may delay your ability to file for divorce in the state and county that you wish.
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There has been a sweeping revolution in divorce law in the United States during the past 35 years, and it is still under way. The changes brought about by this revolution have fundamentally altered the framework of how a divorce is obtained and how divorce affects spouses and children. These dramatic legal changes are, as yet, relatively unknown to the general public and are still not fully understood even by the lawyers and judges who administer the new laws. In order to begin the process of your divorce or separation with realistic expectations, it is very important to understand the new framework of divorce law.
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Divorce in the United States is governed by individual state law. Each state has its own particular laws to deal with all aspects of the divorce process, from residency requirements, to child custody, to the division of property. Until 1970, divorce was universally viewed as a social ill, to be avoided and discouraged by the laws of society. Courts in all 50 states granted divorces only on the basis of some marital fault: adultery, abandonment, physical abuse, mental cruelty, or some other form of misconduct. There was a winner (the innocent spouse) and a loser (the guilty spouse). The fruits of divorce were passed out according to the fault of the spouses. If a husband was adulterous or at fault in some other way, the wife was often awarded generous alimony, a larger portion of the marital property, custody of the couple’s children, and ample child support. Alternatively, if the wife was found to be at fault, she was often denied alimony, given far less or even none of the couple’s property, and could be prevented from having custody of her children. The innocent spouse was rewarded for having been faithful to the vows of marriage and the guilty spouse was punished for his or her marital misconduct.
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This traditional system of divorce began to change in 1970. In that year, California passed the first no-fault divorce laws in the U.S. Since then, the sweeping changes brought about by no-fault divorce have spread across the country, concluding when South Dakota became the final state to embrace no-fault divorce. No-fault divorce is now the law in all 50 of the United States and Washington D.C.
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In the area of property, the new divorce laws have brought about radical changes. Traditionally, in all but the few community-property states, the division of a couple’s property upon divorce was a simple matter. The spouse whose name was on the title to the property was the owner of the property. In most cases, this was the husband.
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If the wife had no property of her own, she was given a share of the husband’s property. Generally, however, she was awarded no more than one-third of the property. If jointly-owned property was divided, it was often done on the basis of who contributed the most money to its purchase. Again, the husband usually took the lion’s share. The wife was given no credit for her non-monetary contributions to the marriage or to the purchase of property. Her homemaking and child-rearing efforts counted for nothing in the traditional method of property division. A wife’s own career sacrifices to put her husband through school, in order that he might better the living standards of the family, were also not taken into consideration.
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Those simple and highly discriminatory rules have been universally overturned in every state. The property acquired during a marriage is now considered owned in equal or equitable shares by both spouses, regardless of whose name is on the title. In many states, spouses are specifically given credit for homemaking duties and an effort is made to provide some level of compensation for the sacrifices of a spouse who aids another in achieving a degree in higher education. The division of property is now based on a view that marriage is essentially an equal partnership, rather than on a determination of who contributed the most actual cash to the marriage. Chapter 3 contains a comprehensive explanation of property division and related matters.
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The major changes in all phases of divorce law, discussed in other articles in this category have begun to incorporate the equally important changes that have taken place in society in general during the past 35 years. Economics has replaced morality as the overriding concern in many aspects of Ameri­can society. Women are gradually being treated more equally and fairly under the law. They are no longer considered as the subordinate spouse in a marriage. In awarding child custody, maintenance, and property, both spouses are on a more equal footing under the new divorce laws.<!--more-->
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These changes have been very rapid and dramatic. They have, in fact, often outpaced the ability of the legal system to cope with them. Judges and lawyers have had a some­what difficult time putting these new laws into practice where there is no precedent to deal with potential problems that may arise. The change to no-fault divorce has made the area of divorce law the only area of law in which the traditional win/lose context of the legal system does not seem to apply. Lawyers and judges are both trained and experienced in a system of law which has antagonistic and adversarial competition as its basis, and thus are often ill-suited to effectively deal with the no-fault basis of the new divorce laws.
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The change to no-fault divorce has somewhat reduced the potential for conflict in divorce by removing the need to prove that one of the spouses is guilty of some form of marital misconduct. However, there is still considerable room for difficulty in the decisions regarding child custody and support and in the division of property.
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Just because a divorce is obtained on a no-fault basis does not mean that it is an uncontested divorce. A true uncontested divorce is one in which the opposing spouse takes no legal part in contesting any of the decisions made regarding property, cus­tody, maintenance, or child support. There is no necessity for an actual trial regarding aspects of a divorce in an uncontested divorce, although there is generally still a court hearing held to determine compliance with basic legal requirements.
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In an uncontested divorce, the opposing spouse may take no part at all, can be entirely absent from the state, or may file legal documents agreeing not to contest any terms of the divorce. An uncontested divorce in which only one spouse makes the decisions on the legal matters (usually an uncontested default divorce) is not generally the most effective manner to obtain a divorce which is fair and just to both spouses. Uncontested divorces may be obtained, however, on the basis of an agreement between the spouses, as explained in the next section.
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In a contested divorce, the spouses are both involved in a legal battle over some or all of these aspects of divorce. A contested divorce can be brought on no-fault grounds, yet include a bitter dispute over child custody, alimony, or property. Despite the advances made in overcoming some of the trauma of divorce by the switch to a no-fault system, contested divorces still provide an arena for lengthy and bitter hostilities.
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It can be among the most ugly legal processes there are: the divorce process. Why is it so ugly? Because when people are going through a divorce, it is necessarily a difficult time in their lives. Other legal processes don’t necessarily come at these difficult times, but any time someone is going through a divorce, there are a great degree of problems involved. Legally, the divorce process is simply a dissolution of a legal arrangement that already existed - but there are a lot of other factors to consider when two people separate their homes, their property, and even make plans for child custody. Let’s take a closer look at the divorce process to understand all that has to take place.
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It all begins with a <B>divorce petition</B> - typically, these are the first forms someone would fill out after they say “I want a divorce,” as you’ll see in TV and in movies. These are the papers that will be served your way if you’re not the one filing the petition - and then these forms are then filed with state courts in order to begin the divorce process in earnest. What’s on these forms? Quite simply, it will list information about the marriage, including the names of the parties involved, listing children as well as property as a way of “initializing” the proceedings that are about to begin.
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When the papers are being served to the other spouse, the process is called <B>“service of process.”</B> In many cases, the other side has no choice but to concede to the divorce. If, at this time, the other party doesn’t want to sign or is hard to locate, a professional server can be hired to make sure that the process goes through in accordance with state law.
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When this form is filed with the state, a certain number of effects kick in. For one, a waiting period may kick in - the waiting period will vary from state to state. There are also limitations put on each spouse’s behavior - absconding with the children to another state, for example, will not be permitted. The various different things that divorcees have tried at this point are already considered by the law and typically banned by your individual state laws.
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If the “respondent,” or the person reacting to the papers for divorce being filed by the other spouse, is uncooperative with divorce proceedings, typically it will lead to a court hearing where a court can rule on the state of the marriage as well as issues that need to be sorted out in order for a divorce to take place.
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At a certain time, both divorcees will need to report all of their financial information and property so that they can then begin <B>settlement proceedings</B> - typically, these settlements will be negotiated between the two parties with lawyers present so that everything is agreed upon. If these things are agreed upon, then the two can sign the forms and move on with the divorce. If not, there will be more trouble for each party. That’s why divorce can be so hard - but with a good lawyer, at least things can go smoothly.

Let’s face it: no one really likes legal forms. Heck, many lawyers don’t even like all the fine print involved with printing, reading, and revising legal forms. Many people who aren’t lawyers don’t even like to hear about them - they just want to know where to sign so they can get on with the rest of their day. So when someone hands you a divorce form, it just compounds on something you already may not enjoy. Why? Because the divorce process is never easy: it’s rarely easy legally, and it’s almost never easy emotionally.
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That’s why at least <B>understanding the forms you’re signing</B> will help the process to be smoother than it otherwise is. In fact, this is great advice for any legal problems you face, but when it comes to divorces, it can give you a tremendous advantage because it means that knowledge is on your site. And, as the saying goes, knowledge is power. Let’s take a closer look at common divorce forms to see what’s going on in the legalese.
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The first form that will be filled out in a divorce is the actual <B>divorce petition</B>, a form that has to be signed by both parties and will be sent in to the state in order to begin the divorce proceedings in earnest. These are the papers that are sent to the other divorcing spouse by the person taking action to begin divorce proceedings - if the other party does not sign them or resists somehow, the person making the petition will typically hire a professional server.
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Once the divorce petition is filed with the state, there will be forms that have to report the assets and property of each party in the divorce. These forms and reports need to be accurate so as to ensure that both parties can reach a <B>marital separation agreement</B> - this agreement divides up property and will require that both parties can ultimately both sign it. This is a very crucial form to reach, as this agreement will generally wrap up the main divorce proceedings and allow both parties to go their separate ways with their new lives ahead of them.
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There are other issues that may come up along the way in a divorce proceeding, however. For example, if one side continues to contest the divorce, there may be an official court hearing to rule on the divorce proceedings and generally outline what will happen. These court hearings are generally not required if the divorce is amicable, but if there are problems between the two parties, there certainly could be a divorce hearing in their future.
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There will also be the question of child custody, which is generally agreed to either in the marital separation agreement or is doled out by the court during a hearing, if both sides are pressing for child custody.
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Understanding which divorce forms really matter for you and your goals is not only something your lawyer should think about - it’s something you’ll want to be aware of if you expect to fight for what you deserve.

When you’re facing a divorce, one of the most important questions - or series of questions - becomes about how everything is going to be handled in your newly-separated life. You have to answer questions about homes, property, cars, and even child custody. It’s a lot to take in. The end goal? Reaching a marital separation and settlement that meets both parties’ needs. The problem is that both parties will be looking for an end goal that is actually a bit mutually exclusive: they both want as much property and rights as they can get.
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Divorce lawyers have to work hard to reach a <B>marital separation and settlement</B> that will not only result in the betterment of their clients’ situation, but will actually result in something both parties can actually sign on. If neither party agrees to anything, the divorce process will drag on and on, becoming a force of its own. That’s why understanding what a marital separation and settlement agreement is can help any party in a divorce achieve their goals.Here are some basic facts about these agreements.
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First, remember that you’ll be well aware of the divorce by the time a marital separation and settlement agreement needs to be hashed out. Other forms, including the <B>divorce petition</B>, will require both parties signing them before you sit down for negotiations. So remember that signing something early on in the divorce will not necessarily affect the outcome of these negotiations - just make sure that you have your lawyer explain each step to you so that you know what’s going on and what to prepare for.
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It’s also important to realize that these marital separation and settlement agreements will hash out a great bit of detail. For example, you won’t only work on <B>negotiating property and finances</B>, but you might have to answer the question of child custody. This can be a very contentious part of the divorce process, as both parties fight for custody, and will ultimately have to be settled - either by a court or by a mutual agreement between the two parties.
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Larger property will also be fought for on both sides unless one party is willing to acquiesce - generally, if one party is willing to give up some property in exchange for another, there are ways to split up the property so that both parties feel they got a valid share. The larger property might be fought for at this point, but ultimately working out a settlement is the goal of this process. Try to take the advice of your lawyer as to picking your battles - understanding which property is easier to fight for than others is a good way to proceed.
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Ultimately, this agreement will help establish where you are as you head on to the next phase in your life. So it’s important that you take this process seriously and are indeed willing to fight for the things that really matter to you - child custody, properties you earned, etc. It’s not important only for you, but for the long-term welfare of everyone involved.